I Hope You Find A Love That Makes You Feel Safe

Anyone who knew me as a mostly stay-at-home mom just five years before--when my interactions with adults mainly consisted of choosing cuts of meat with the butcher at the grocery store and collecting stacks of letters from our mailman--wouldn't have imagined me as a workshop presenter or public speaker. Mars …

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I Don't Deserve More Energy

When Charles got in the car, he popped out the Sesame Street tape that they always listened to and put in Aaron Neville. As we remember from our definition, innovations are seen as both separate from, and part of, larger and smaller innovations. One person I worked with, Dave, described …

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Taking A Technology Break

One condition associated with excess androgens is polycystic ovarian syndrome, or PCOS. You may assume that this type of manipulation does not occur very frequently for the reason that children are often none the wiser than their parents but you will be wrong. The goal was for the kids to …

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Coping With Greed

Probably the first major effective chemical tool in psychiatry was the tranquilizer, chlorpro-mazine, also known by its brand names, Thorazine or Largactil. If you remember when the BlackBerry first came out, the first mobile device that pushed new emails to the user and alerted you to them with a red …

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What Is A Routine?

Conversely, one who seems to think in big colourful pictures with little patience or inclination for administrative spreadsheets may find their skill for detail, when applied, equal or even greater than the person preferring solitary work in the quest for quantitative data and research. Most of the nuns in the …

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Its All About Mia

Only the Brain was new, new-rology, towering above everything: invested-in, expensive, decapitated, a giant totem of Cartesian priority, of human uniqueness, crowned with helicopters delivering us from bad dreams (a rail fitted around the helipad perimeter to discourage potential jumpers), opened in a hurricane by a celebrity former patient, re-enacting …

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Take The Focus Off The Human Encounter

Interestingly, the teacher was dressed head to toe in what I consider the more fashionable of modern-day yoga attire. Our spirits stand naked in time for all to see--everyone's life, finally, is accountable to the universe. Gradually, as you move through the programme, you'll learn to notice thoughts, without letting …

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Fear Of Following Your Dreams

They will build relationships with others who have similar interests and at the same time build their confidence. Perhaps two or three of these can be directly related to your current circumstances. The loosening of the rock in this dream presents a challenge common to all: risking giving up our …

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Too Many Cat Naps

These are questions which every counselor must continually be asking himself. Important basic counseling skills, along with examples, are below. This returns us to a fundamental question: What modifications can we adopt to ensure that mindfulness is helpful--and not harmful--to trauma survivors? I wanted to be the most special, as …

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Nurture Others

Amber's father-in-law was in intensive care for four months, and Amber had a one-year-old, a job, and she needed to go to the hospital every day. I love journals and fancy pens, and expressing my gratitude is such a relief. Honour the schedule and notice how your week changes. As …

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A Wiser Advisor

People report feeling pretty low, doubtful of their own ability, sometimes even emotionally damaged when they've been part of a low-functioning or failing team. In one study, male college students given feedback that they were not well suited for their career goals became very boastful regarding their relevant strengths--even when …

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You Get To Make Your Life

I worked with leasing offices and in a retail space, and I discovered I didn't like selling part of real estate. Mechanization has for many years helped those in service jobs, like gardeners and carpet cleaners do their work better. I've opted out enough times by now to know that …

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Giving Up Approval For Lent

Withdrawal causes unexpected symptoms, and having an experienced third party can help us answer suggestive thoughts. Some people in the group understood when I said that I was doing it for my son, but a bunch of others hated the idea that they weren't going to be getting into VIP …

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Coping With Approval

I would then ask how likely LENNY was to text him and respond to obstacles that could get in the way. The lesson is, go outside, keep the arousal of the activity low and the intensity moderate. When we are feeling insecure and unsure of ourselves, we are particularly sensitive …

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The Winter Of 1986

The trouble was that we grown-ups went immediately into d-mode, trying to figure it out, and, in the case of the Rubik cube, this was not the right mode to be in. Traffic police and teachers are exposed to car fumes and chalk dust every day. But it goes both …

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